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FAQ about extreme sex toys: My girlfriend is an extreme feminist I cant please her with sex???? HELP?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I love her and she loves me. She is an extreme feminist and doesn't like penetration because she says it hurts her and if we try it seems like it really does so we rarely do it.
I have bought her many sex toys for her as I really want her to enjoy herself and I know I cant penetrate her - she uses them when I am with her. She just wants me to suck her breasts when using them. It seems like she enjoys to dominate me but due to privacy with our living arrangements she cant do this all the time.
I think she has an inner conflict as she doesn't like one sex being subservient to the other but seems to enjoy dominating me. Whenever she has had a bit to drink and we do anything sexually she really dominates me...
I want to talk to her about it seriously outside the bedroom about taking up a D&S (domination and submission) relationship but I don't know how to approach it. Am I wrong what should I do???
:S Are these bipolar tendancies?
I've read a bit about it, and I've had my suspicions for the last couple of years... which is when I, and other people around me, first noticed I was having these extreme mood swings.
When I feel up... I've done things like sleep with multiple men, masturbate 10 times a day, buy a large amount of sex toys, volunteer to be someone's sex slave for a few days for cash, spend hundreds of pounds on children's toys, secretly stop taking my birth control as I was convinced I wanted a child (thank god I didn't get pregnant), pressured my boyfriend into having sex multiple times a day, to the detriment of our relationship, go out drinking with people I hardly know, spend as much money as possible, or I go out to college one morning and then don't come home for 2 or 3 days!... I also get really angry easily, and people are constantly telling me to calm down . I have sworn in teacher's faces, for example. I've gone into school drunk. When I'm in this mood, I can't stand to be on my own. I need people around, or I start to go crazy...
When I feel down, I don't feel like I can possibly go into college. I turn off my phone, ignore my friends (who I love and care about), don't go into work, and avoid everything and everyone. I can lie in bed sleeping and crying for hours or days. If I go out, I don't enjoy it at all, and everybody I talk to seems to just annoy me or make me upset. I stop caring about my schoolwork, and find it impossible to get any homework done. Sometimes I injure myself on purpose and give myself bruises.
Usually, I'll be in one of these moods for a few weeks, then I seem to go back to my normal self for a while before switching to the other one! My mum thinks I'm just being a stupid teenager! (i'm 17) - I don't have the best relationship with her, and she doesn't care about me at all. My dad refuses to speak to me, since we had an argument 12 months ago, when I was in one of my 'up' moods.
I used to see a psychiatrist and psychologist, but they told me that I'm not bad enough and that I don't need them, while I was in one of my normal moods... why can't they see the pattern?! looking for some thoughts and advice about...?
here's the situation
I work with at risk young adults and parents who are dealing with the child protection agency in my area. Recently we have come across a young mother in a rather difficult situation. This young woman was raised in a horrible home. She endured years of extreme sexual abuse at the hands of her father. He had been using her and her older brother to act out his sexual fantasies. The girl has been having full penetrative intercourse since she was five with both her brother and her father. The children where isolated from society and neither knew anything other than the life of a sex toy. They where also repeatedly beaten and restrained, sometimes secured to the floor with restraints and held there for days. When the girl was 11 she was able to tell another family member what had been going on. The child protection agency in their home town went to investigate the home. They somehow got convinced that the older brother had been the one doing the abuse and took him out of the home, leaving the girl alone with her father. The daughter again told another family member when she was 13. The agency then removed her but after an investigation they decided that she had lied and forced her to move back in with her abusive father.
For the next 4 years things got much worse. The father became much more violent and his sexual fantasies became much more perverse. The girl endured some of the most horrible experiences you can imagine. She spent those years thinking she was deserving of her life since no one cared to help her. The emotional toll was worse then the physical and sexual abuse.
At 17 she got a chance to escape. She found a ride to the closest city and got sucked into prostitution. She spent the next 4 years selling her body to survive, facing countless beatings and assaults. At 21 she got pregnant and decided to try and straighten her life out. She was doing a great job until her second child was born. Her first had been a boy and the second a girl. Having the dynamics of a brother/sister relationship to deal with sent her into a emotional downward spiral. ALl the sexual feelings she had experienced as a child came back to haunt her. She had never had any positive sexual experiences and to her love equaled sex. She found herself feeling sexually attracted to her children. After fighting off the urges on her own she turned to the child protective services to help her keep her children safe. The children where removed until she was able to prove that she would not do to them what was done to her. She has been working on it for four years now and has a much more positive view of herself and her past. She has worked through her sexual feelings towards her children and has proven that she is no longer a risk to her kids. She got her children back after two years. She is now fighting to have her file closed but the agency is unwilling. They are threatening to bring her back to court to keep it opened. We are trying to help her fight this. She has proven herself again and again. She has regained the right to be full parental guardian and the previous court ruling have said that she is good to go. She doesn't want to go back through the courts and risk loosing access to her children again.
We have run out of ideas on how to help this mother. It seems that the child protection agency won't accept that she is better. She is the one that went to them for help and has proven that she is fully aware of the danger of her deviant thoughts and is actively working to keep them at bay.
This poor mom just wants a chance at being normal.
so i am asking two things.
1-what are your opinions on the situation
2-what are some things we could be doing to help her more
she has a whole team of people working for her and against her. She has a psychiatrist and a counsellor form the sexual assault support center. She has been evaluated by the court ordered pschologist and her family has been evaluated by the courts too. She has proven she is capable of caring for the children which is how she regained custody. She is aware that she will always need supports and has acceptd that there will always be some level of involment from outside agencies. We are just trying to find a way to not go back to the courts to have her file with the child protwection agency closed. We are not asking for an end to all involment with the family, just a chance to clear her name.
i don't work for the CRA, I work at a drop=in center for lower income families. She is a client we have been helping for some time now.
I ahve no special qualifications, i am not her shrink, her social worker, her anytihg really. I am just a drop-in worker trying to come up with ideas to help a client.
I am not using Y!A to keep her supervised, I am a worker siting at home on my day off trying to brainstorm ideas for a client parents, what are your thought on this situation?
here's the situation
I work with at risk young adults and parents who are dealing with the child proctection agency in my area. Recently we have come across a young mother in a rather difficult situation. This young woman was raised in a horrible home. She endured years of extreme sexual abuse at the hands of her father. He had been using her and her older brother to act out his sexual fantasies. The girl has been having full penetrative intercourse since she was five with both her brother and her father. The children where isolated from society and neither knew anything other than the life of a sex toy. They where also repeatidly beaten and restrained, sometimes secured to the floor with restraints and held there for days. When the girl was 11 she was able to tell another family member what had been going on. The child protection agency in their home town went to investigate the home. They somehow got convinced that the older brother had been the one doing the abuse and took him out of the home, leaving the girl alone with her father. The daughter again told another family member when she was 13. The agency then removed her but after an investigation they decided that she had lied and forced her to move back in with her abusive father.
For the next 4 years things got much worse. The father became much more violent and his sexual fantasies became much more perverse. The girl endured some of the most horrible experiences you can imagine. She spent those years thinking she was deserving of her life since no one cared to help her. The emotional toll was worse then the phisycal and sexual abuse.
At 17 she got a chance to escape. She found a ride to the closest city and got sucked into prosititution. She spent the next 4 years selling her body to survive, facing countless beatings and assaults. At 21 she got pregnant and decided to try and straighten her life out. She was doing a great job until her second child was born. Her first had been a boy and the second a girl. Having the dynamics of a brother/sister relationship to deal with sent her into a emotional downward spiral. ALl the sexual feelings she had experienced as a child came back to haunt her. She had never had any positive sexual experiences and to her love equaled sex. She found herself feeling sexualy attracted to her children. After fighting off the urges on her own she turned to the child protective services to help her keep her children safe. The children where removed until she was able to prove that she would not do to them what was done to her. She has been working on it for four years now and has a much more positive view of herself and her past. She has worked through her sexual feelings towards her children and has proven that she is no longer a risk to her kids. She got her children back after two years. She is now fighting to have her file closed but the agency is unwilling. They are threatening to bring her back to court to keep it opened. We are trying to help her fight this. She has proven herslef again and again. She has regained the right to be full parental guardian and the previous court rulling have said that she is good to go. She doesn't want to go back through the courts and risk loosing access to her children again.
We have run out of ideas on how to help this mother. It seems that the child protection agency won't accept that she is better. She is the one that went to them for help and has proven that she is fully aware of the danger of her deviant thoughts and is actively working to keep them at bay.
This poor mom just wants a chance at being normal.
so i am asking two things.
1-what are your opinions on the situation
2-what are some things we could be doing to help her more a very tricky situation, need some feedback?
here's the situation
I work with at risk young adults and parents who are dealing with the child proctection agency in my area. Recently we have come across a young mother in a rather difficult situation. This young woman was raised in a horrible home. She endured years of extreme sexual abuse at the hands of her father. He had been using her and her older brother to act out his sexual fantasies. The girl has been having full penetrative intercourse since she was five with both her brother and her father. The children where isolated from society and neither knew anything other than the life of a sex toy. They where also repeatidly beaten and restrained, sometimes secured to the floor with restraints and held there for days. When the girl was 11 she was able to tell another family member what had been going on. The child protection agency in their home town went to investigate the home. They somehow got convinced that the older brother had been the one doing the abuse and took him out of the home, leaving the girl alone with her father. The daughter again told another family member when she was 13. The agency then removed her but after an investigation they decided that she had lied and forced her to move back in with her abusive father.
For the next 4 years things got much worse. The father became much more violent and his sexual fantasies became much more perverse. The girl endured some of the most horrible experiences you can imagine. She spent those years thinking she was deserving of her life since no one cared to help her. The emotional toll was worse then the phisycal and sexual abuse.
At 17 she got a chance to escape. She found a ride to the closest city and got sucked into prosititution. She spent the next 4 years selling her body to survive, facing countless beatings and assaults. At 21 she got pregnant and decided to try and straighten her life out. She was doing a great job until her second child was born. Her first had been a boy and the second a girl. Having the dynamics of a brother/sister relationship to deal with sent her into a emotional downward spiral. ALl the sexual feelings she had experienced as a child came back to haunt her. She had never had any positive sexual experiences and to her love equaled sex. She found herself feeling sexualy attracted to her children. After fighting off the urges on her own she turned to the child protective services to help her keep her children safe. The children where removed until she was able to prove that she would not do to them what was done to her. She has been working on it for four years now and has a much more positive view of herself and her past. She has worked through her sexual feelings towards her children and has proven that she is no longer a risk to her kids. She got her children back after two years. She is now fighting to have her file closed but the agency is unwilling. They are threatening to bring her back to court to keep it opened. We are trying to help her fight this. She has proven herslef again and again. She has regained the right to be full parental guardian and the previous court rulling have said that she is good to go. She doesn't want to go back through the courts and risk loosing access to her children again.
We have run out of ideas on how to help this mother. It seems that the child protection agency won't accept that she is better. She is the one that went to them for help and has proven that she is fully aware of the danger of her deviant thoughts and is actively working to keep them at bay.
This poor mom just wants a chance at being normal.
so i am asking two things.
1-what are your opinions on the situation
2-what are some things we could be doing to help her more Ladies: Are there certain females you can't stand your man being around?
I don't know if is just me but there is this one girl in my guys uni class and I cannot stand him being around her. After viewing her myspace she seems to have tons of guys on her page, half naked photosof herself - even one to the extreme of having a sex toy in her mouth.
Now I am usually a really secure person and I trust my guy - it is her I dont trust. They have to commute together with a few other people and I get so jealous. She will text him now and then and he wll usually ignore her. She just seems really common and easy. How do I control myself not to go mental at my guy about her? lol
Hopefully I am not the only mad woman
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